21 Aug 2011

Rant

This has been a yo-yo week for me. UP down UP down UP down UP down....... JuSt AbOuT LeVeL.

Good
Did the vegan for a week
Gave my first blood donation
Ran 15 miles
Petted a super cute puppy

Less Good
Some dufus in a car threw something at me while I was running
Another dufus made a sarcastic 'well that looks hard' comment while I was running
My motivation was flagging anyway

Why so people that don't know you, your journey or your situation feel they have some divine right to make a comment about you just because you are exercising in a public place? Are they suddenly an expert on how to exercise?

It is never another fellow exerciser. It is always a stroller, or an onlooker. And not trying to make a sweeping generalisation, but they are generally larger than me. Do I pass comment when you buy a doughnuts? How about when you are eating a pie? When your kid is screaming for sweets at the checkout do I say something? No. I don't. Because I don't know your story. I have no idea what happened in your day. And I am certainly not going to be the negative nelly that makes you feel worse.

So, please, don't do it to me.

3 comments:

  1. Great post Jess! Sounds like a rough week. People are asses sometimes. I believe that if we continue to take the high road and "be the good" it will make a difference!

    Mike @ justalittlerun

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  2. If it were that easy, they'd not be in a car and speeding away after being dufus's. Cowards.
    And if you gave blood, give yourself more credit! It can take several days to recover from that - so if you didn't feel too strong on the runs, that could certainly be part of the reason.
    Keep up the good work!

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  3. Thanks peeps!I never thought about the blood thing... just figured I'd be fine!

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